Inspirational Success Coaching…………..
The power of believing in your self worth, your self confidence, your self esteem and your ability to be the best you can be right now.
About 11 years ago…I was a single mum driving a dump truck in a gold mine wondering where my life was going.
One morning at 3am while coming down the mountain fully loaded it struck me. How could I change my life. After having lived all of my life answering to others and trying to please others I knew it was time to take back control.
I was kind of curious about how some people lived such empower lives and others didn’t. What actions would I have to take to change my life and could I make this happen for me. If my life was going to be any different I knew I had to do something.
After all, I had grown up from being a quiet bullied teenager who had no self esteem, no self belief and no self confidence into a polite adult who wasn’t game to stand up to anyone. Never having done this it was kind of strange for the first time ever in my life feeling as though I would take control of my life and make things happen for me. So I started to educate myself about how other people did it.
I was fearful and realised that if I wanted my life to be any different I would have to embrace uncertainty and make decisions and then take action. I had to take responsibility for my life and become my own leader. Stop blaming everything and everyone else for my experiences and become the person I needed to be to lead my own life to where I wanted to go.
I First came the decision that I wanted to create this change.
Then a question…What did I want my life to look like?
I just thought life happened and you dealt with what was tossed your way.
Oh how wrong I was… I wrote down all of the things that I wanted to experience and what I wanted in my life, more happiness, fun and freedom and to be able to contribute and make a difference in a grander way. To settle down with the man of my dreams, to develop a family unit to give my son a stable, safe and secure environment to grow up in and to wear real diamonds.
I focused on one step at a time and within 1 month of my conscious decision to change my life I left my job, spent all of my savings on a newer car, I had moved towns into the house I wanted, got a job working the hours that I wanted and had picked my diamond ring ready for the perfect partner to come next.
Everyday at lunch I would swing past the jewellery shop and peak at my ring knowing that right now, I was attracting the right partner into my life. Not 4 weeks later I met the man of my dreams and was proposed to by my wonderful husband with the ring I had been focusing on at the jewellery shop. It was amazing to know that I had created that success in my life.
10 years on we have 5 children, live in a beautiful home in the country and my life is amazing. I now have created a business helping other women to take back control of their life and live their dreams.
Stepping up and taking responsibility for me meant letting go of my past and moving towards my future. I had to shift my focus and set new goals with a vision of where I wanted to be. By saying yes to myself I allowed others around me to say yes to themselves.
Become your own leader and lead yourself today. You can create the change, right now!
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